a) It fell during The Official Month From Hell (aka October) and I hardly answered anything or posted during that month
b) It seemed to me like you were just clarifying things for yourself, sort of thinking out loud, and it was something that didn't really require response on my part
c) I didn't disagree with anything you wrote, and I despise "Me too!" posts, as you well know. :)
d) It's not really clear what you wanted comment on. I mean, you laid out some things, and delineated your thought processes on some stuff, but there wasn't anything there that really screamed "LYS! ANSWER ME!!!" to me. I certainly hope I'm not one of those who uses my physical problems as an excuse to excess (though I think that EVERYONE is guilty of that once in a while), and if I AM one of them, I would hope you would tell me personally rather than in a generalized post like that.
e) Someone beating on you is going to get a response from me no matter how busy I am. You know that. You know that you would respond to someone beating on me in the same manner no matter how busy you were.
So don't take it as being ignored. Don't take it as "maybe if we don't answer she'll go away." Take it as "You said it well, you said what you needed to say, and it made sense, so my silence is agreement."
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timeasmymeasure
well, personally...
Date: 2003-11-05 02:38 pm (UTC)a) It fell during The Official Month From Hell (aka October) and I hardly answered anything or posted during that month
b) It seemed to me like you were just clarifying things for yourself, sort of thinking out loud, and it was something that didn't really require response on my part
c) I didn't disagree with anything you wrote, and I despise "Me too!" posts, as you well know. :)
d) It's not really clear what you wanted comment on. I mean, you laid out some things, and delineated your thought processes on some stuff, but there wasn't anything there that really screamed "LYS! ANSWER ME!!!" to me. I certainly hope I'm not one of those who uses my physical problems as an excuse to excess (though I think that EVERYONE is guilty of that once in a while), and if I AM one of them, I would hope you would tell me personally rather than in a generalized post like that.
e) Someone beating on you is going to get a response from me no matter how busy I am. You know that. You know that you would respond to someone beating on me in the same manner no matter how busy you were.
So don't take it as being ignored. Don't take it as "maybe if we don't answer she'll go away." Take it as "You said it well, you said what you needed to say, and it made sense, so my silence is agreement."
Love you, babe.